"Just because you have testicles doesn't mean you have balls."
A wise one told me this once and I fell on the floor laughing. The statement is not really a gender thing, it's a statement about courage like stepping up to do the right thing, being up front and honest when it would feel so much easier to lie or avoid conflict, and taking responsibility and accountability for the consequences of your actions. It does take guts to live a life of honor, honesty and respect, but it is so worth it!